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看优点,看缺点

看到别人的优点时,也看看自己的优点;看到别人的缺点时,也看看自己的缺点。这是最近正在学习的一门功夫。哈哈哈.... 因为突然间,身边很多人、事、物,都会有突变。突变的有好的,也有坏的。 感情,是很抽象又很复杂。当你以为是真心对待,一瞬间却又变成虚情假意,然后就觉得感情被骗了。现在想想,其实是不是被骗是看你怎么去看待彼此的感情。他对你好时,是不是真的有对你好?帮助到你?有的话,那就是真心。对你不好时,是不是因为需要对你不好从而帮助到他? 我感情洁癖者,当我所以为的感情有丝毫瑕疵,我就开始一直只看到里面的缺点、对方的缺点。反过来,其实自己也是有瑕疵的。对于朋友... 对友情,会更执着。因为蛮难会找到志同道合,又有情有义的了。每个人,每一天,都在经历着事情,从而学习到新领悟,然后再改变自己。 人与人之间,无论是做成朋友,抑或情人都是多世修来的缘分才能认识的,一定要珍惜,一点小争执或是误会就翻脸。有心病也要趁早说出来解决,当然,这必须是两人都肯面对。

Orange: Colour of courage & energy

Just watched transformer 2 this Tuesday in the midnight at Genting.. Whoa! Very nice lerr.. it makes u won’t stare at ur watch for “wat the time now? When finish?” LOLx! But, it will make u shock “EH!? Finished liao?” LOLXXX! When love comes to reality, erm.. when love, the passion, comes to certain period the passion the sweetness seems to be fading out.. For me, I consider this is a period of transition. The relationship will be transform to another stage, a more mature stage. XD my transitional period my every of my bf also very very hard, coz have to go through lots of “communication” means Fight! And then many of the stuff that we used to bear it or keep in heart becuz when we juz start dating we have wonderful acceptance. Then, when it comes to transitional period, all these will become the quarrel topic. My relationship transitional period was 6 months, very punctual, is my problem to make the period occur? I’m not very sure, my 2 previous relationship also like dat, ngam nga

Touch my heart

These 2 days was listening to 2 songs... Very touching, and melt my heart... I don't know how and what am I supposed to do with my *. It's just confusing... and its hurt.. Your call - Secondhand Serenade Waiting for your call, I'm sick, call I'm angry call I'm desperate for your voice Listening to the song we used to sing In the car, do you remember Butterfly, Early Summer It's playing on repeat, Just like when we would meet Like when we would meet Cause I was born to tell you I love you and I am torn to do what I have to, to make you mine Stay with me tonight Stripped and pollished, I am new, I am fresh I am feeling so ambitious, you and me, flesh to flesh Cause every breath that you will take when you are sitting next to me will bring life into my deepest hopes, What's your fantasy? (What's your, what's your...) Cause I was born to tell you I love you and I am torn to do what I have to, to make you mine Stay with me tonight And I'm tired of b

平静的心

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There are so many things we can't control. Just like we can't control our face won't have pimples during period ^o^! About 2 years ago, I have read a book about communication the title quite funny in mandarin " Ways to communicate with crocodiles". LOL! Yeah... crocodile is some kind of animal in the category of amphibian which can live in water or on the land. Crocs' character are quiet, meticulous, introversive and quite stubborn also invasive. Just like humans, there are many types of human being. In our daily life, we have to communicate with ppls, deal with them. For me, currently, have to deal with my parent and a important person in my life. The book taught me a very important step that is before u want to get something from a person, u must give them the things that they want it, such as, u need to borrow money from ur uncle because he is rich but then he quite upset these days because his wife suspected him have keep a woman outside. Alright, then u h

Should be sad? or angry?

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A fren told me about a fren backstab me... Well, its not the 1st time kena backstab liao.. especially when know who is the person backstabing me lagi no suprise. Because i know what's in the person mind, why the person do that. I don't know I should be sad or angry, but, its a fact that the person don't have fren anymore. If the person keep on doing like this, the person will get no more fren. Even have "fren", also not a true fren because the person will not treat any fren with true heart. It is a process of growing up to be more mature to see different faces in different people. Frens said me, mum said me : Stupid la u! For me, writing is the best way to release feeling by using hm.. depend on different ppl la.. use ur words to express wat in ur mind, wat in ur heart. Especially, those speaking is very very hard to speak out from mouth in voice. So, we just can write it down in words. Somehow, when u choose to publish it, u must have the courage to face all the